
We all have moments that touch or transform us. I had one of those moments this past weekend.
Returning from Author 101 University in Las Vegas I sat next to a young man on my flight home.The event had been so positive and uplifting that my energy continued on the rest of the weekend.
We got to talking like people do, but I found him to be particularly bright and inquisitive. He was talking about health insurance, work, and his relationship with his girlfriend. He said "I don't know if this is a commitment or a submission". I was taken aback by his words and asked what he meant by that. He explained some and then asked this very seasoned lady (that would be me)..."What is the secret of a good marriage or a relationship?". I paused to reflect and answered as best I could.
But I found the word submission very intriguing. I don't know if my advice was understood, but I was touched that such a young man would welcome the advice of an older woman.
Suddenly like God whispering in my ear...I was asking about his personal family life. He said his father had died several years ago and he had to be the man of the house. I asked how his father died, and he got very quiet, looked down and said "He killed himself, he was only 50". He was of Asian culture and I know they are by nature a very stoic group of people. Hold yourself together, no tears, just get busy with life, etc. Suddenly I asked him if he knew why his father killed himself? He looked away and down and replied no. I asked him if he had grieved the death of his father?
Unable to make eye contact with me he suddenly began to silently weep. I touched his shoulder as he wept like a child that was so injured the tears wouldn't stop. I asked if he needed a hug? He replied "Yes". He lay ed his head on my shoulder and wiped away the tears of many years. He looked me straight in the eyes and said, "Thank you, I can't believe how much better I feel."
The whispers of God come at the strangest of times. We must always be ready for them. So keep your heart and ears open to the whispers of God. And just follow His lead...Let God help you to help others...And you will forever be touched...as will be the person you touch. Grieving,a very important process...hard to move forward withoug walking through it. To Paul I say thank you for sharing your heart and for allowing me to be a part of your life if only for 15 mintues...
The only thing that counts is faith expressing itself through love. (Gal.5:6)